Regarding the post below...
Think about it this way..
If you are a father, are you not in someways almost totally in control of your children?
therefore if you are a good father - do you not cultivate freedom in your children to be who they should be
How much more then how Father, who will set us free to be who He made us to be
"love God and do whatever you want"
Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Tim Chester etc.. all talk about the person who must be free to be a person
The orphan is forced to live a stereotypical orphan life - and we can predict his behaviour - selfishness, greed, cynicism, etc..
The child is free to do anything... anything within the love and power of his Father